My dearly loved elderly Aunt is here. I am mortified by the conditions! Dirty, run down, in disrepair. There is not a handicapped entrance as such; one drives behind the building to a door marked "Ambulance Entry". There are three keypads to get past, two of which are about six feet from ground level. There is no intercom or call device, therefore no way to enter without a code! The same is true to exit the building. How is this fire code compliant? And this is just the beginning! My aunt has been placed on the Dementia unit. She was suffering from confusion resulting from a temporary medical issue. She has since largely recovered over just a few days but is trapped in a sort of prison! It's like the movie One Flew Over The Cookoo's Nest! The charge nurse, Rebecca, refused to allow me to take my aunt out to get her hair done and have lunch. Initially, she said "...we like to wait a couple of days to let patients acclimate...". Then it was a week " to get used to being here". I explained that my aunt will not be at Absolut Care for very long, we are working on moving her to The Elderwood. At that point, Rebecca said "you will not be taking her anywhere..." I asked her if these were New York State imposed regulations, internal policies, or unit guidlines. She simply replied "It just is". She accused me of bullying her as she hung the the phone up on me! Rebecca was unprofessional, rude, unintelligent, accusatory, inflammatory, uninformed and inconsistent during our "conversation". I explained to Rebecca that my observations of my aunt were that she has regained most of her cognitive abilities, but Rebecca denied this. I wanted to know who would be evaluating my aunt, and Rebecca told me that the hospital (from where she had just come) had already done that. I wanted to know about continuing or follow-up evaluation and Rebecca replied "staff". Who, what staff!? When I asked, she refused to allow me to speak to anyone else or to otherwise elevate my concerns! In other words, Rebecca is the Diagnostician, Warden, Legislator.The Dementia unit is bare, empty, completely devoid of anything to engage these poor souls locked up here. It is dirty and smells of urine and gingivitis (really, I'm not exaggerating). The poor people living there just sit along the bare walls or wander in and out of rooms, up and down the halls. I observed three staff on duty, one of whom was taking a nap at the nurses station, head resting on arms on the desk. My aunt's roommate spent the early evening in bed, yelling about her broken teeth and some long ago, disruptive event. Surely one could expect mental stimulation, companionship, beauty of some sort! Not in Absolut Care in Endicott NY.My poor Aunt is frightened, alone and without comfort, unless one of her extended family it there. Staff do not understand that she is deaf, not demented. No one knows where her hearing aids are! She told me that there was nothing to do or even read. She is not allowed to have a phone and is required to ask, then explain who she is calling and why. She was not allowed to call her own primary care doctor, whom she has been with for many years. That was Thursday and Friday. On Monday, I will be contacting admistators, parent company headquarters, primary care doctor, and if need be, the District Attorney and news media.